How to be More Charismatic

Having charisma is the most powerful characteristic that you can possibly possess. Here’s my secret tip on how you can start coming off more charismatic and build more charisma. I call it: ✨ the celebrity method ✨

You know how when you walk into a room full of loving family or friends, you feel completely relaxed and happy? 🌱 That’s because you already KNOW that everyone in that room likes and loves you.

That’s how charismatic people operate everyday.

We always assume the worst of people:

❌ “No one wants me here.”

❌ “I’m wasting their time.”

❌ “No one is going to like me.”

❌ “Everyone is probably going to think I’m annoying.”

Because we put our guards up and assume people are out to judge us. But these thoughts are charisma killerz !!! 😵😵😵

Charisma is walking into a room & giving people the opportunity to love you. That’s it!

So next time you go to walk into a room, visualize yourself interrupting a conversation of people speaking positively about you. Imagine that they’re saying 

✅ “Wow! I can’t wait to meet (your name)!” 

✅ “Can’t wait to hear about (name)’s presentation!”

✅ “Wow, I can’t wait to hear about (name)’s new idea! She always has such good ideas!”

Yes, it may feel 100% delusional, but it works!

So, next time you walk into a room that makes you a tiny bit (or a lotta bit) nervous—try my “Celebrity Method” and imagine that everyone there is so happy that you’re there. 😍

Visualize that the people in that room are HONORED you’re coming. They’ve heard SUCH good things about you. They honestly can’t wait for this meeting/party/pitch/interview/presentation. They’ve been looking forward to this all day because they heard that you’re just SO ______ (fill in the blank! — funny, kind, relatable, interesting, etc!)

You will instantaneously come off more charismatic. You got this 👏

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